people say he's blind,but they don't say he can hear things well.
people say she's fat and her dress is ugly,but they don't say she's such a funny girl and thanks God she is healthy.
people say she is short and she's got a big nose, they don't say she is so smart and persuasive. people say he is so rich, they don't say he smokes and he tells lies all the times.
people say she made a big mistake, they don't say she gain a huge experience.
people say she's got a big butt, they don't say she likes studying and she's trying to be a good writer.
That's life. That's how it is going right now... That's why when your cousin finds out that you speak Spanish, she is shocked because she was noticing to your face.
that's why when you want to translate something for your aunt she says: oh, it's hard you can' do that while you already know all the words....
that's why when you see your neighbor you say: damn! and so the day begins!!! before you know he works in a hospital and he saves people's life out there....
why did we all became like this? why do we think of people's faces,cars instead of thinking about the God whom created all of us? why are we paying attention to bad points all the time? why do we criticize without giving a solution? why aren't we thankful?
Let's start from right now... let's change the way we think..... well, for a good start see good things and say it... you can say: Good job... such a nice article!! that writer is really something and leave a comment for saying you already change....
GOOD LUCK
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you know what? almost all of us know that we have to change.but how? this is the question! how we can change ourselves into what we want?people in this world just think bout money.nothing more such as humanity.why we omitted this word humanity from our lives? lets do sth different.sth out of our daily selfish rules.thanks.
ReplyDeleteLife nowadays is so fast paced that we have forgotten the things that we were taught as children...the simplest of which is " If you cannot say anything nic, say nothing at all."
ReplyDeleteWe have forgotten kindness and generosity of spirit. Just because a thing can be said out loud does not mean that it is required to be done.
I try every day to ask my self.." Is that witty remark made at anothers expense ?"
My mother once told me that for example ..gossip. Before you participate in it ask yourself three questions:
1. Is this a true thing ?
2. Is this a necessary thing ?
3. Is this a hurtful thing ?
In most cases regarding gossip, at least one of the three things listed above applies..do you really want to the the kind of person involved in such a negative thing ?
My late mother was very wise .
Have a wonderful day.
Waving from Houston , Texas
I totally agree with you, and have been thinking about why people have to say negative things about each other, I have been trying to stop people from doing that around me, but its hard. I love your concept and will try harder to live by it. :)
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